Today's Bliss: Final Countdown

Our sweet little girl is due in 6 1/2 weeks. I cannot believe how quickly the time has flown by! The past seven months have been quite an adventure, but Lily Grace is growing, healthy, and getting set for her debut in August. I am deeply thankful for the experience that I have already had with this little girl, and I cannot wait to see what is in store for us.

Spending so much time focusing on family has reminded me that I am blessed to have an extensive, caring support system around me. No matter the circumstance, I know that there are so many people willing, able, and wanting to be a part of our lives. N and I are very, very grateful for everyone who helps us feel loved.

Feeling close to people, knowing that they are in your corner and by your side? That is bliss.

Lily Grace's first party: our baby shower!

Today's Bliss: Baby Buchanan!

All of my life, I dreamed of being a mom "someday." As it turns out, N has always dreamed of being a dad. So, after 2 1/2 years of marriage, our dreams are coming true...we are having a Baby Buchanan! We are excited, nervous, overwhelmed, elated, scared, happy, and a lot of other emotions all rolled together, but mostly, we are blissful and blessed. Our lives will be forever, wonderfully changed this August and we are very much looking forward to this new experience.

We're going to be parents!

All of you parents out there, we request that you stay close to your phone, Facebook, and email accounts this year because we'll probably have some questions and need your advice! Please keep us in your prayers as we ready our home, lives, and hearts for our new, blissful addition.

Today's Bliss: A New Year

The last few days of 2012 are quickly coming and going and I realized today that I am glad. I know that I should never wish for time to pass, that I should be grateful for and savor every moment of the days that I am given, but 2012 has just been a little rough, and I am glad to turn to a new year ahead. December has specifically been a roller coaster ride, and as much as I love theme park thrill rides, I am very ready to get off of this one. There have been some highlights (see below), however, and I will work to focus on these during the last hours of the year.

Deep down, I am constantly reminding myself that my life is blissful even when I face some challenges and unexpected hurdles. I am very blessed, even with challenges, because every single thing that happens is in God's hands, even though I rarely understand the "why" of it. It's just hard to lift your head out of the murky waters when you feel immersed by them. I hope that in 2013 I am better able to breathe in more light and life and exhale negativity and fear. And I hope the same for you, too.

So, to tie up 2012 on a good note rather than dull one, here are a few blissful things that I will hold on to from this year:

• Just being married to sweet, caring, funny N and enjoying his company every day.
• Seeing the Grand Canyon for the first time and realizing how vast God is.
• Having cuddle time with my spoiled dog Scooter every day (as much of a mess as he is).
• Spending time at a lovely lake house thanks to N's Grandmother.
• Supporting friends when they have needed me to lend a helping hand and listening ear.
• Having healthy, happy family members.
• Seeing my one-and-only Neice graduate from high school and begin her fun college adventure.
• Standing by while a good friend said "I do."
• Worshiped and fellowshiped with supportive, caring friends at church.

My true loves

All the best bliss to you as you tie up 2012 and plunge headlong into 2013 in a few days!

Today's Bliss: Advent

I love the holidays. It is a time for rest, reflection, family, and celebration. I especially enjoy the weeks between Thanksgiving and Christmas, when we are preparing for a festive, joyous time ahead. I like to buy people gifts and wrap them up, decorate our home, bake some yummy cookies, and feel warm and cozy readying my Christmas card list.

The most important thing during this time of the year is advent. The word "advent" brings to mind more spiritual preparation, a deeper time to celebrate Jesus, God's perfect gift to us. Where would we be without God? Where would we be without the sacrifice He made? Jesus is our only hope in this very crazy world we are living in.

Many people hustle and bustle rather than stop and pray during this season. Many people don't like this season at all, seeing it as sad rather than joyous. Many people equate Christmas with stress. And I have been guilty of all of this myself, of course, but I am trying harder and harder every year to keep my mind on the manger, my eyes on the cross, and my heart centered on Christ at Christmas. Feeling His presence every day is what keeps me going throughout the year, but especially now when we are getting set to remember His birth.

So, look around you, enjoy the bright lights, festive decor, and fun that the season brings. The fact that you can partake of this season and enjoy the blessings of Christ is pure bliss.

Christmas 2011 - Gaylord Opryland Hotel

Today's Bliss: Advice

My sweet dog Scooter had a very rough week. He has bulging discs in his back, causing him pain and difficulty walking. Early in the week I did not know what to do, where to go for help, or what veterinarian to go see. Luckily for me, I have good friends in different realms of my life who have a lot of experiences with dogs and medical issues concerning pets. I received a lot of advice and I really, really appreciated all of it. Scooter is doing much better now that he has some medicine and we know what is wrong with him!

Scooter as a bitty baby! March 2007

 

 

Scooter: in the hood. December 2008

Scooter hangin' at the lake. August 2012

The whole experience this week got me thinking: what would I do without people to help me out? To offer advice, help, encouragement, love, support, guidance, and grace? To tell me their thoughts and opinions? I would be lost. My family, friends, and co-workers are all such blessings to me. I am so grateful for their presence in my life.

God gives us people in our lives so that we can be in fellowship and help each other. I am so blessed to have all of the people who surround me! Look around in your life. Do you see people (whether few or many) who can offer support and love, who can give advice and direction? Listen to them. They will help your life be bliss.

Today's Bliss: Veterans Day

Today we stop to admire, remember, and thank people who have served our country and sacrificed for us. I cannot even imagine traveling overseas in this role...I can't imagine being married to someone in the role, either. The men and women who serve our country in the armed forces and their spouses and children are such a vital part of our country and I thank them for being brave and focused on helping the U.S.A. be strong and protected.

Today I have thought about freedom and what it really means. I am so blessed to live a blissful lifestyle, free to do as I please, worship as I please, love whom I please, go where I please, and live how I please. I am very grateful to people who are dedicated to ensuring that I can live this life.

Let's all pray for the many, many people around the world who do not have this freedom. People who would love just to be able to worship publicly. People who would like to choose who they would like to marry. People who need to hear about Jesus but the Word has been suppressed. Maybe with our support through prayer, they can also feel that they have a life of bliss.

Today's Bliss: Saints

Anyone who knows me knows that I am an emotional person. I cry tears of sadness, tears of joy, tears of exhaustion, and tears of elation. But I cry the most when someone passes from earthly life to eternal life. Even if I am not necessarily close to someone, I cry for their families. The loss of someone who supports, loves, and cares for others is always a great loss.

Death is a natural thing, a gateway to eternal life, something that happens to every single living thing, but I don't handle it well. I think that a lot of people don't.

The one thing that makes someone's death bearable for me is that I have strong faith and I know that someday I will see my loved ones again. And that people who leave me are joining in jubilation with their loved ones who passed on before them...

I am so thankful for all of the Saints that God has given me throughout my life. Today we recognized All Saints Day at church and we lit candles for those who we wanted to remember. I lit several...I could have lit the whole candle display full, because if I really think about it, I know that I have had hundreds of people go through my life who have left a mark. Some people are with me for an hour, others are with me for my lifetime, but all people leave an impression on me. That is why I weep so much when they leave to be with God.

And so now I pause to ask myself: Am I leaving a good, meaningful mark in the lives of people around me? Am I going to be viewed as a Saint? Are my loved ones looking down on me from Heaven, proud of my good works and strong faith?

I hope so. I hope that we all will live the faithful, joyous, grace-filled lives that we've been given in such a way that everyone around us knows that we are Disciples and Jesus Followers. Saints.

And the day that Christ welcomes us to greet the Saints who have passed before us? That will truly be bliss.